Mental Violence and the BOWL!!
Words that stumble out of your mouth which gifts you regret are so common today. People are so good in misunderstanding. Infact they all hold an "#A+" in that criteria. None tries to understand or ask for an explanation. It's been just a piece of cake for people to take it all wrong.
Is this the real freedom of thought?
Blaming others to cover the thoughts of the very own ignorant mind.
I can't say so. People never let a person to take hold of the situation. Even if they do so, the explanation will also be mistaken most of the times. Hardly one realizes it and makes a move and often, either the conversation or the matter is put on hold.
This is not really a healthy "bowl of soup" for a relationship. To make it far more worse, the bowl gets broken sometimes. Rather than thinking of anything else one gets struck with what has been done and the guilt drives to fatal depression. The people taste the aftermath with the same #dirty_bread and spits with disgust.
After all,they still have no idea of #what_should_be_taken_with_what?
This leads all the way to mental violence!!
It is very important to learn how to taste the bowl of soup in a relationship!
One must be very careful with the bowl. First feel the smell, the colour and the spices which will prepare your tongue for the taste. Touch the bowl to know the temperature and take time if it is too hot. Remember!never gulp the soup as a whole. Handling the spoon(#words) is an art. One wrong move, either the soup gets spilt over the table, perhaps on one's self too or sometimes the bowl fells down as a whole.
Now its time to taste. Have a gentle sip and try not to disturb the liquidity. During the course,if you come across any pepper, just have it with the liquid or chew it at the end and never put it down. Of course,it might be hot. But trust me its the best antibiotic. Do have the veggies as they're the most prominent part of the soup. Many people prefer to have a clear one. Yet a clear one will not promote clarity, always.
This might be a boring lecture to have a simple soup. But remember this is not just about your regular bowl of soup. This is all about the #bowl_of_soup_in_a_relationship!!
If you handle and have it with Care, you'll remain healthy. If not you'll be a victim of #mental_violence!!(or perhaps you'll be an imposer of mental violence!)
Is this the real freedom of thought?
Blaming others to cover the thoughts of the very own ignorant mind.
I can't say so. People never let a person to take hold of the situation. Even if they do so, the explanation will also be mistaken most of the times. Hardly one realizes it and makes a move and often, either the conversation or the matter is put on hold.
This is not really a healthy "bowl of soup" for a relationship. To make it far more worse, the bowl gets broken sometimes. Rather than thinking of anything else one gets struck with what has been done and the guilt drives to fatal depression. The people taste the aftermath with the same #dirty_bread and spits with disgust.
After all,they still have no idea of #what_should_be_taken_with_what?
This leads all the way to mental violence!!
It is very important to learn how to taste the bowl of soup in a relationship!
One must be very careful with the bowl. First feel the smell, the colour and the spices which will prepare your tongue for the taste. Touch the bowl to know the temperature and take time if it is too hot. Remember!never gulp the soup as a whole. Handling the spoon(#words) is an art. One wrong move, either the soup gets spilt over the table, perhaps on one's self too or sometimes the bowl fells down as a whole.
Now its time to taste. Have a gentle sip and try not to disturb the liquidity. During the course,if you come across any pepper, just have it with the liquid or chew it at the end and never put it down. Of course,it might be hot. But trust me its the best antibiotic. Do have the veggies as they're the most prominent part of the soup. Many people prefer to have a clear one. Yet a clear one will not promote clarity, always.
This might be a boring lecture to have a simple soup. But remember this is not just about your regular bowl of soup. This is all about the #bowl_of_soup_in_a_relationship!!
If you handle and have it with Care, you'll remain healthy. If not you'll be a victim of #mental_violence!!(or perhaps you'll be an imposer of mental violence!)
Yep.. In this fast world no one is ready to listen others.. Even between hus and wife... Everyone is looking from self point of view only... They are not ready to listen and analyse. This will affect till their end of life.. Patience and listening is the onlu solution
ReplyDeleteYes Anna.That is what I'm aiming at and I believe one day people will surely realize it whether they have a chance to change or not.
ReplyDelete"No one appreciates the very special genius of your conversation as the dog does" said Christopher Morley. I guess he nailed it and further explanation of mine will damage the quote.
ReplyDeleteI understood sissy. That's a great quote. People tend to evolve day by day but still they remain unevolved or misevolved and by the end of the day they'll make just the mess out of it.
ReplyDeleteIn this world there is no perfect relationship mean that made for each other. instead of pondering over the thought make it in the simple words as "trust". This will lead a healthy life among others..rather than mentioning it as a mental violence put into as psycopath
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